When I have people to dinner I've already picked out the wine I plan to serve. If they show up with a bottle in their hand, am I obligated to open it and serve it with the meal?
Well, I don't, as a rule. If it's a good match then yes. If not, I thank them very much and open what I already had chosen.
Just my pair of pence. Doesn't mean I don't appreciate the gift. I hope the guest sees it that way too.
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