Reading all this, I'm glad we split before lockdown. It would have been ugly. First marriage was 20 years. I swore off men. 8 years after I left I started most recent relationship which went almost 9 years, got engaged in 2017 after 6 years. Bought a house and moved in together April 2018. Tough dynamics with his 21 year old son living with us. At least it ended before we got married. I am officially done with men.
