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Originally Posted by DETRoadster
So tell her you need one when you sit down next. Take this angle: "Look, you are moving on with your life. You have a new guy and I'm sure it's a strain on your new relationship to have me always in the picture. Finalizing the divorce and settling this house this will help that greatly. Also, it's going to allow me to move on with my life too." This is also something an mediator will help with.
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Thanks for your advise!
It’s been 4 years of me waiting for her to follow through with this house situation. I agree this will be a big talking point. Last year it was let’s wait one more year so she could get her credit score up to get approved for the cash out refi. Now this year she is saying the same thing.
One thing I want to get her to realize is no matter how high her score goes up if she doesn’t make enough money to qualify for the refi her score is irrelevant and we need to sell the home.