I'm going to be different from the rest here.
My advice would be to discuss the issue openly.
If this relationship has any long-term possibilities, you both need to understand what each other want/need/can't stand in a relationship.
Communication is how this information is exchanged.
Over 38 years of dating/marraige, my wife has done many things that got under my skin - and vice versa. We discussed them openly, and if they weren't deal-breakers (they weren't) we modified our behavior/responses.
If you find that she's unwilling to communicate and work toward a common goal, then you have two choices: Continue with a relationship that has no long-term future (do you even care? Or are you just experiencing life until you get out of school/better job/etc), or break off the relationship and start fresh on your search for 'Mrs. X'.
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