you are putting way too much thoughts, feelings and money into a first date, bro...
it didnt work out, big deal... just move on and take your car for a good ride, just you and her (your car, not this girl
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i know that's what i would do right now if i were in your shoes !!!
(PS: girls who are attracted to thugs wearing backwards baseball caps are probably not the kind of girls YOU want to date, so forget about them too !)