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I know it sucks but, maybe she's just scared because of how well things were going and the reality of the relationship.
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This. I know that anytime that things are going well for me, it scares the hell out of me and I tend to push back. |
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Or you can use BP OT and Politics as the antidote in those times...just jump back on here with a controversial post and you can go off licking your wounds and it'll balance your life out nicely.
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This is actually very accurate. I'll be honest, there have been several times that I have posted on here, only to have my thoughts and opinion thrown back in my face....with force. This place can be the f'n thunderdome for sure.
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For me I’m extremely independent. I grew up on a farm doing work outside with horses, to a certain extent I will do my own work on my car, and am an entrepreneur in business etc. The second that’s challenged or I get a condescending remark about it in a relationship, I don’t care how perfect the guy is, I’m out. I put up with a person who was like that for over a year and it was toxic. I don’t want to go down that road again. For everybody it’s different though, there are some women want the guy to dote to them and do everything for them. So ultimately it just boils down to being around someone that understands and complements you.
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I mentioned it before...I learned a long time ago I could be perfectly content being by myself. I could pick up "company" for a night or two pretty much whenever I wanted it...so I didn't have that aspect to be needy about. It's selfish to admit, but I don't ever see my self being able to go "all in" again. Once was enough and I go burned for something she even admitted was her mistake. She was ready to get back together within 2 weeks of me leaving telling me she screwed up. I told her that it wasn't happening. I could forgive but not forget. We are friends now and she has kids, but will still say that she made the ultimate mistake and realizes it. Now granted I did pretty good for myself after it was just me and my daughter..so the materialistic side of it could be some of the reasons why she still insists that. I have a good wife now. She is totally committed. But I told her that just because of the way I am because of my past..it doesn't change how I feel about her. She knows my character and that I would never intentionally hurt her. But she also knows that I'm not one for playing games either.
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It may sound a bit too wise but as a young man I'd looked at girls to get with the most matches in hobbies etc., now as very older I admit that the lowest sum of potential angers are the aim of a really good relationship. Time is too short to waste it with constant troubles into my private life. Quote:
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Think of it this way. If you care so much about everyone around you, that you are constantly filling everyone else's glass before you fill your own; at the end of the day, everyone else has a full glass but you. I've learned to fill my glass first, then fill theirs with the overflow of my glass. Their glass is full, but mine isn't empty in the process. Last edited by King Rudi; 07-31-2019 at 09:53 AM.. |
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oh i definitely understand what you mean. I have to admit I did this with my immediate family but thats whole different thread lol i stop being the waiter. |
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And I agree the hobby thing can go either way. It can go fantastic where it something you enjoy doing together, and it can also go very sideways and result in resentment as well. Fine line to walk on there.
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I had to go through this same issue as well. Of course I ended up looking like the bad guy and was shunned for awhile....but the next time they needed something which wasn't to long afterwards...they were calling me again.
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