[Germanauto]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

oo tough one
it's sadly "important" to portray the good life on instagram, but i completely get why normal people don't post pics with their friends online for everyone to see

id say don't do it, it adds a sense of "mystery". or if you do, literally pay for followers (theyre cheap), make your account private, follow maybe like 100 of the suggested ones and post useless stuff. if you have a high post count and high follower count but a low following count girls see that as you being a high value man (fuck if i know why) so it might help you then

but unless you follow that route i'd say no, the only reason i have one is for car and watch pages and occasionally posting a pic with my boys

I don't like drawing attention to myself. I'd prob post the occasional pic with the boys and a vacation/car show shot here and there.

At the end of the day IG is just a tool. Most people misuse this tool and become completely absorbed with it. You don't have to be like one of them. It's easier said than done, but that's the truth.

[Germanauto]

Originally Posted by bimmette

On the contrary, I rather see a guy who isn't too active or popular on IG actually.

I feel similarly. It's one thing to post occasionally, but when it turns into constant self promotion its a big turn off.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Germanauto

I feel similarly. It's one thing to post occasionally, but when it turns into constant self promotion its a big turn off.

Oh. But what if that self-promotion means free car parts? Is that an exception?

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Oh. But what if that self-promotion means free car parts? Is that an exception?

Pshh I'd whore myself out for free car parts.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Pshh I'd whore myself out for free car parts.

I'll teach you.

[Germanauto]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Oh. But what if that self-promotion means free car parts? Is that an exception?

If I could be gifted said parts I'd make an exception. : )

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Germanauto

If I could be taught how to install said parts I'd make an exception.

I know someone who makes DIY install videos so simple to follow that even a girl could do it!

[WeekendWarriorz]

Originally Posted by aozer

dont do it, shit is stupid. i dont have an IG and i never will.

i love when i match with a girl on tinder or bumble and when the conversation progresses and they ask for my instagram and they get all weirded out when i tell them i dont have one. it makes it easy to weed out the shitty people who prioritize creating an image over sharing real experiences.

General rule of thumb, always good to see a girls Instagram because that's the image they try to portray of themselves. If they're trying to be "trendy", every other picture is with their arms wrapped around another guy, and they have a huge following/ post ass/bikini pics can usually tell if they're a whore or a housewife

[someguywithanm3]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Solid idea. Report back.

Hung out for a little bit on Sunday morning to go grocery shopping. I noticed she did her makeup and wore perfume. I went to a friend's party a few hours later and she insisted I come back after the party to hang out because she was making food.

We also hung out on Monday after work (strictly as friends, like she wanted). We didn't talk all day today then I get a message a few minutes ago asking if I was asleep. I asked if she needed something and she said sorry, goodnight and that I didn't understand. I asked her to help me understand and no reply...

Hmmm. I'm too old for this stuff. Now it's past my bedtime.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by WeekendWarriorz

General rule of thumb, always good to see a girls Instagram because that's the image they try to portray of themselves. If they're trying to be "trendy", every other picture is with their arms wrapped around another guy, and they have a huge following/ post ass/bikini pics can usually tell if they're a whore or a housewife

you literally described many girls i know from school, gg

a few days ago i went to the coffee shop because my friends work there = free coffee and a nice environment to get some work done, this seemingly meek girl was eye fucking me the whole time... you can never know

we're reaching "i dont trust these hoes so i ride my own dick" levels VERY quick boys

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by bimmette

In my opinion, I like to see a guy have an Instagram account. It makes him more "legitimate", especially if it gives his real name. I am more likely to contact someone through Instagram than a dating site.

My question: Had you stopped to look around to men in person around you? If you met one and have any background because not checkable via social network...would you refuse a meet/date?

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

My question: Had you stopped to look around to men in person around you? If you met one and have any background because not checkable via social network...would you refuse a meet/date?

No I don't meet real people. I live in my cave.

[Dang3r]

This was a serious question. You as a person who shared youtube and IGs met a person who dont care about both and done neither of it. Would this affect your interest?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Hung out for a little bit on Sunday morning to go grocery shopping. I noticed she did her makeup and wore perfume. I went to a friend's party a few hours later and she insisted I come back after the party to hang out because she was making food.

We also hung out on Monday after work (strictly as friends, like she wanted). We didn't talk all day today then I get a message a few minutes ago asking if I was asleep. I asked if she needed something and she said sorry, goodnight and that I didn't understand. I asked her to help me understand and no reply...

Hmmm. I'm too old for this stuff. Now it's past my bedtime.

She's into you man. It's very obvious. Where you messed up here is asking her if she needed something when she texted you. The reasoning behind her response of "Sorry, goodnight" is that her feelings were hurt in the crass response of asking if she needed something. A simple "yes" would have yielded a much different reply from her.

Women don't go grocery shopping with someone who is just a friend. I have several female friends that I am close with. I have never gone grocery shopping with any of them. If a woman takes the time to put on make up and perfume to be around you, this is a clear indication that their appearance to you matters. If she insisted that you come see her after said party because she made food, this means that she made the food for you as an means of getting you to be there.

My man, you need to be proactive here. Stroke her ego. Let her know how you feel. Try a simple text message of "Just thinking of you" randomly; you'd be amazed at how simple gestures work to your benefit. I can't help but feel that you are letting something, most only fantasize about, slip through your fingers due to not knowing how to handle the situation.

I can honestly picture her in my mind talking about you to her friends having the discussion of what else can she do to get you to notice her. I get messages from women complaining about the men that they are interested in not paying attention or acting as if they are not interested quite a bit. She's going out of her way here, pay attention and act accordingly....that is if this is what you want.

If this is something that you truly want to explore with her and make the genuine effort with but need help with how to handle it, by all means ask for advice. I'll be happy to point you in the right direction. Post here or feel free to PM me.

[upstatedoc]

ok so I know you guys are dying to know what is going on with my social life, i've been dating a woman for a couple of weeks and we really hit it off. she invited me over to her place for dinner last night and i brought a bottle of wine, yada yada yada i'm really tired and a little sore today, bonus: i have left over chicken enchiladas for lunch today.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

ok so I know you guys are dying to know what is going on with my social life, i've been dating a woman for a couple of weeks and we really hit it off. she invited me over to her place for dinner last night and i brought a bottle of wine, yada yada yada i'm really tired and a little sore today, bonus: i have left over chicken enchiladas for lunch today.

Hope you gave her the full enchilada too!

Ok - how weirdly does she spell her name - spill!

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

This was a serious question. You as a person who shared youtube and IGs met a person who dont care about both and done neither of it. Would this affect your interest?

Nope

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

She's into you man. It's very obvious. Where you messed up here is asking her if she needed something when she texted you. The reasoning behind her response of "Sorry, goodnight" is that her feelings were hurt in the crass response of asking if she needed something. A simple "yes" would have yielded a much different reply from her.

Women don't go grocery shopping with someone who is just a friend. I have several female friends that I am close with. I have never gone grocery shopping with any of them. If a woman takes the time to put on make up and perfume to be around you, this is a clear indication that their appearance to you matters. If she insisted that you come see her after said party because she made food, this means that she made the food for you as an means of getting you to be there.

My man, you need to be proactive here. Stroke her ego. Let her know how you feel. Try a simple text message of "Just thinking of you" randomly; you'd be amazed at how simple gestures work to your benefit. I can't help but feel that you are letting something, most only fantasize about, slip through your fingers due to not knowing how to handle the situation.

I can honestly picture her in my mind talking about you to her friends having the discussion of what else can she do to get you to notice her. I get messages from women complaining about the men that they are interested in not paying attention or acting as if they are not interested quite a bit. She's going out of her way here, pay attention and act accordingly....that is if this is what you want.

If this is something that you truly want to explore with her and make the genuine effort with but need help with how to handle it, by all means ask for advice. I'll be happy to point you in the right direction. Post here or feel free to PM me.

THIS is the content i come here for

[King Rudi]

bimmette I feel that you are your own worst enemy when it comes to dating. I may be wrong but I feel like you have created your own demon here.

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by dinonz

Ok - how weirdly does she spell her name - spill!

not tellin

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

I get a message a few minutes ago asking if I was asleep. I asked if she needed something and she said sorry, goodnight and that I didn't understand. I asked her to help me understand and no reply...

Hmmm. I'm too old for this stuff. Now it's past my bedtime.

I'm pretty sure I'm much older, and in a mono relationship of 20+ years, but even *I* know the correct answer to this one: "No, I can't sleep, thinking of you"

SMH
#WHIPPERSNAPPERS

[******]

I just had a flashback to when I was a naive high school kid and this girl I had just started dating told me “I want you”... huh? Was my clueless reply. What do you mean? “I want you to make love to me”? Huh? This wasn’t the language my buddies and I had ever used or heard of, our sexual experience being limited to looking at little f*** books. Anyway, this phone call story reminded me of that.