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      05-12-2015, 12:12 PM   #89
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He literally just texted me....twice
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      05-12-2015, 12:18 PM   #90
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      05-12-2015, 12:20 PM   #91
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Don't text back! It's a trap!
I did. I cant believe what he said to me. I dont know what his intentions are now.
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I did. I cant believe what he said to me. I dont know what his intentions are now.
What did he say?
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      05-12-2015, 12:30 PM   #95
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What did he say?
Ill post the screen shots when I get back from lunch
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      05-12-2015, 01:03 PM   #96
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      05-12-2015, 01:16 PM   #98
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i just skimmed this thread and this is the conclusion i came up with:

- holy fuck i'm glad i'm not single.
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      05-12-2015, 01:34 PM   #99
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Sara,

You are a nice girl, so as a 33 year old single guy I will give you some feedback. The guy is not into you - he will play the game and keep his options open... But he is not serious about you. Cut your losses and move on.

I know because, unfortunately, I was this type
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Sara,

You are a nice girl, so as a 33 year old single guy I will give you some feedback. The guy is not into you - he will play the game and keep his options open... But he is not serious about you. Cut your losses and move on.

I know because, unfortunately, I was this type
Same here lol
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      05-12-2015, 01:36 PM   #101
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(reply to Billup saying the guy is thinking about what's under the clothes)
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He doesnt have to think too hard
Sara, you're giving this guy waaay too much of yourself after only one date (and maybe even too much on the first). I can understand you're excited to start a new relationship, but as others have said, you're going to come off as desperate, clingy, psycho, and all those other words we guys use to describe overbearing women.

I don't think you should blow him off or anything, but don't make him the center of your universe already. You are an attractive girl with an outgoing personality, I don't think meeting guys will be hard for you, even with having a baby. So have some fun, enjoy your dates, but don't expect a relationship to form so quick. Maybe give that other guy a shot at one date, he may surprise you.
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I did. I cant believe what he said to me. I dont know what his intentions are now.
I can tell you word for word what will happen with this whole situation based on what you've said already, but I'm curious as to what he said to you.

Not that it's a bad thing, it's just..., predictable. Stop being predictable. Like griever just said above, you're giving yourself up and you barely know the guy from a first date.
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      05-12-2015, 01:46 PM   #103
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Yeah, give Billup a shot!
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      05-12-2015, 01:48 PM   #104
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Remember that discussion a while back Sara where you said you were done with this type and you've learned....and I said time will tell?

Well...time is telling.
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He literally just texted me....twice
I think we just figured out he's on Bimmerpost.

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      05-12-2015, 01:58 PM   #106
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You guys are right. I got all hormonal for a while there. I need to chillax.
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I feel weird about going on a second date with a guy I have been talking to for two weeks. We had an AMAZING first date. I mean the best I've ever been on. We have our second date lined up for this Friday but I was the one who initiated both dates.........Do you guys see that as an issue? I feel like I'm coming on too strong here.


I dont know how to do this anymore.


Fuck it, I'm going to end up as a cat lady.
I disagree. If you enjoy the person's company and would like to get to know them better, there's nothing wrong with reaching out to them. Obviously there's a balance....but we're talking two dates here.

Nobody likes a cat lady Don't over think it Sara.
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      05-12-2015, 02:04 PM   #108
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I disagree. If you enjoy the person's company and would like to get to know them better, there's nothing wrong with reaching out to them. Obviously there's a balance....but we're talking two dates here.

Nobody likes a cat lady Don't over think it Sara.
way too late
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      05-12-2015, 02:06 PM   #110
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Still want them? I've already said I was in the wrong.
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