[F30lolz]

I'm too lazy to read every post in this thread, however, in my almost 24 years of flirting, dating, seeing, married and whatnot with the opposite sex the golden rule I've learned was this:

"If you really want to see, talk, text, date someone, you do whatever it takes with no excuses"

OP, move on.

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

I'm too lazy to read every post in this thread, however, in my almost 24 years of flirting, dating, seeing, married and whatnot with the opposite sex the golden rule I've learned was this:

"If you really want to see, talk, text, date someone, you do whatever it takes with no excuses"

OP, move on.

This. /thread.

[Whostheboss]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

I'm too lazy to read every post in this thread, however, in my almost 24 years of flirting, dating, seeing, married and whatnot with the opposite sex the golden rule I've learned was this:

"If you really want to see, talk, text, date someone, you do whatever it takes with no excuses"

OP, move on.

I'll play devils advocate.

Not really. Sometimes you just want to think about them and look at pictures and just fantasize what it will be like to sleep with them, hold hands, argue, how she'll look in a wedding dress, aging together etc.
Sometimes you just sit and think of these things without texting or calling them.
You must not text/call the person you like EVERY MORNING. Sometimes you need a mental break. It doesn't mean you don't like them, it simply means you're sane and collected. I think you people are getting addicted to people you like.

And Sara, most Men always reply with "I aint doing nothing". Sometimes when i have the busiest morning at work, When a girl texts me, asking me how my morning is,most of the time, i'll reply with "Just siting here doing nothing".

[F30lolz]

From my experiences (not saying I'm Casanova - far from it) I only dealt with girls/woman who went the extra mile for me. If I had to call/text her and she would hardly do the same, make excuses to see me, I would consider that a chore for her. Therefore, I was out. For some reason I never believed in chasing a girl in order for her to like me, fall for me, blah blah blah . If I liked a girl I let it be known off the bat, none of this lets be friends bullshit. If I heard that I quickly lost interest and moved on. OP, sorry for thread hijack but I strongly believe in what I said and it has worked out for me.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

From my experiences (not saying I'm Casanova - far from it) I only dealt with girls/woman who went the extra mile for me. If I had to call/text her and she would hardly do the same, make excuses to see me, I would consider that a chore for her. Therefore, I was out. For some reason I never believed in chasing a girl in order for her to like me, fall for me, blah blah blah . If I liked a girl I let it be known off the bat, none of this lets be friends bullshit. If I heard that I quickly lost interest and moved on. OP, sorry for thread hijack but I strongly believe in what I said and it has worked out for me.

Billup, what are you thoughts on this post?

[Billup]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Billup, what are you thoughts on this post?

It's essentially what I've told you and Fleeked already. Don't make others a priority, when they make you a choice. It's simple. It all boils down to respect, and there are certain things people do to show each other they care and are fully invested. Simple communication, understanding, and lined up morals will get you involved in meaningful relationships, instead of flings. Flings are mostly physical, and you can typically tell who wants a physical relationship or something lasting based on HOW THEY TREAT YOU *ahem*.

Everybody has different ways of portraying their wants, but one thing is universal when it comes to meeting new people, and that's respect. If you want a relationship, it's about give and take. A lot of people just want to get their dick wet or their twat smashed, which is fine, but if it's not what you want, then you better be able to see through facades and who people really are on the inside.

[Sara]

He just canceled on me....

[Billup]

Not surprised. How many times do I need to repeat the same thing for it to sink in?

[Douche]

Originally Posted by Sara504

He just canceled on me....

He's a good man. I respect him that much more now.

[P1]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

From my experiences (not saying I'm Casanova - far from it) I only dealt with girls/woman who went the extra mile for me. If I had to call/text her and she would hardly do the same, make excuses to see me, I would consider that a chore for her. Therefore, I was out. For some reason I never believed in chasing a girl in order for her to like me, fall for me, blah blah blah . If I liked a girl I let it be known off the bat, none of this lets be friends bullshit. If I heard that I quickly lost interest and moved on. OP, sorry for thread hijack but I strongly believe in what I said and it has worked out for me.

You, my friend, know what you're talking about. Agree.

[Sara]

"Hey Sara, I'm sorry I have cancel our plans Friday. I have to go with the head honcho for an oral argument on a case and I have to fly to miami."



OK well see ya. Bye. Just my luck eh?

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

This thread was so much more fun/entertaining when it was about jolly ranchers cross bred with gonorrhea...

Now it's all serious....

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[Sara]

Well the good news is I will spend the weekend with my mini me and go shopping

[F30lolz]

Originally Posted by Sara504

"I have to fly to miami."



OK well see ya. Bye. Just my luck eh?

Ask him where in Miami. I'll see if he is actually "here" haha

[Sara]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

Ask him where in Miami. I'll see if he is actually "here" haha

Well in the two weeks I've known him he has flown across the country twice already. I did ask him why he was single since he seems so great in which he replied with my work schedule is crazy and I just dont have time to meet anyone. Sooooo,he may be telling the truth.

[wrickem]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Well in the two weeks I've known him he has flown across the country twice already. I did ask him why he was single since he seems so great in which he replied with my work schedule is crazy and I just dont have time to meet anyone. Sooooo,he may be telling the truth.

Or he isn't as "single" as he claims to be.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by wrickem

Or he isn't as "single" as he claims to be.

Trust me, by the way his house was, he's single. If he had a girl, his bathroom and bedroom would be much tidier. Just saying.

[F30lolz]

Hoes in different area codes....not saying you are one OP.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by F30lolz

Hoes in different area codes....not saying you are one OP.

[Billup]

My place is always immaculate. Being clean or not is a matter of laziness, not if someone is single or not.


I'm done giving advice. In one ear out the other.

[Whostheboss]

He didn't even call to cancel? He text'd you?

lol

[Revartr]

Originally Posted by Billup

Being clean or not is a matter of laziness, not if someone is single or not.

THIS. So much. My place is a mess 50% of the time because I'm a procrastinating, lazy bastard. But if I know I'm going to have a girl over, I'll usually clean it.