would you care if your girlfriend gets implants

MisterSkiMask · 07-28-2010, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Lagger1

PIITB then DTB

08rookie · 07-28-2010, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

If for health reasons, yes.

If for other reasons, you are insecure or have reason not to trust your GF, or both.

i duno man...its easy to throw out "insecure" in a blanket statement on one guy or girls attitude towards each other in a relationship but there is definitely circumstantial evidence, in my relationship at least, that cancels out insecurities on my part.

for starters we have had the family/wedding/children/future conversations that i never solicit. also, my girlfriend had a rich ex bf. he had what we call out here 'fuck you' money...she left him and never looked back. (guy actually moved to cali and married) im not worried about her meeting a guy who has money, im not worried about some guy at a lounge running corny game and sweeping her away to a life of bliss. both of us have equally good looks and know the other, if single or determined, would have easy access to companionship if the chance comes up.

but i picked my words carefully when i spoke in my posts here about 'actions that encourage behavior that compromise integrity in a serious relationship.' dropping nine grand to have titty implants when your in a serious relationship and thinking family and kids is a little different than being pissed off at some broad you started fucking 2 weeks ago for talking to a guy at a bar when you leave for 5 min to take a piss

DougLikesBMW · 07-28-2010, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by 08rookie

but i picked my words carefully when i spoke in my posts here about 'actions that encourage behavior that compromise integrity in a serious relationship.' dropping nine grand to have titty implants when your in a serious relationship and thinking family and kids is a little different than being pissed off at some broad you started fucking 2 weeks ago for talking to a guy at a bar when you leave for 5 min to take a piss

I'm not exactly sure what you meant by this last paragraph, but you are a damned fool if you even consider paying for her implants.

Memphis1 · 07-28-2010, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by 08rookie

i duno man...its easy to throw out "insecure" in a blanket statement on one guy or girls attitude towards each other in a relationship but there is definitely circumstantial evidence, in my relationship at least, that cancels out insecurities on my part.

for starters we have had the family/wedding/children/future conversations that i never solicit. also, my girlfriend had a rich ex bf. he had what we call out here 'fuck you' money...she left him and never looked back. (guy actually moved to cali and married) im not worried about her meeting a guy who has money, im not worried about some guy at a lounge running corny game and sweeping her away to a life of bliss. both of us have equally good looks and know the other, if single or determined, would have easy access to companionship if the chance comes up.

but i picked my words carefully when i spoke in my posts here about 'actions that encourage behavior that compromise integrity in a serious relationship.' dropping nine grand to have titty implants when your in a serious relationship and thinking family and kids is a little different than being pissed off at some broad you started fucking 2 weeks ago for talking to a guy at a bar when you leave for 5 min to take a piss

Sounds like you're in denial...

bigslick82 · 07-28-2010, 01:28 PM

This happened to a good friend of mine. He paid for his wife's implants and a couple months later she was caught with another guy. The affair went on for at least two months. She's sorry and wants to stay with him, but he's moved on. This was after a nine-year marriage.

If she's in a committed relationship with a future and she wants to get them, she's not happy with herself and/or the relationship.

08rookie · 07-28-2010, 01:37 PM

@doug....def not paying lol...i was referring to the difference in comfort levels when comparing the actions of a girl you just started fucking to the actions of a girl you are considering proposing to.

@mystic...im not denying anything...if you followed from the first page, my OP admitted to the number of reasons why i am not favoring the implants. health issues, financial issues and personal preference issues....i was explaining to OC335 in the post you quoted that's its too easy to blanket situations by saying one person is insecure when the circumstance isnt explained. so i tried to explain the circumstance and its as neutral as i could....if you knew me on a personal level maybe you would understand insecurity is not really the issue lol....

08rookie · 07-28-2010, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by bigslick82

This happened to a good friend of mine. He paid for his wife's implants and a couple months later she was caught with another guy. The affair went on for at least two months. She's sorry and wants to stay with him, but he's moved on. This was after a nine-year marriage.

If she's in a committed relationship with a future and she wants to get them, she's not happy with herself and/or the relationship.

sorry about your friend. trust is very interesting. it takes a whileeee to earn and a second to lose. some people think trust is a weakness. horrible way to live if you cant trust somebody...

on your second statement...things on her homefront are a little touchy. her parents are going through a nasty divorce. foul shit is coming out. my gf's mom is mentally fucked for life finding out her husband of 30 years has had over 50 affairs with girls his daughter's age...my gf is always upset because she thinks shes gona lose her family as she knows it....very sad...i feel for her...shitty situation no matter how you spin it...maybe she isnt happy with life in general?!?

you can never really know somebody and what they are thinking. minds have deep caverns full with desires that nobody will hear of....unless you are on the receiving end of their actions.

T-MC-G · 07-28-2010, 02:09 PM

tell her if she is going to get breast implants she might as well get some lipo at the same time... then let us know what her reaction is

Blake · 07-28-2010, 02:12 PM

my fiance has them. best $6000 she ever spent. (bolded because no man should ever buy them)

OC Guy · 07-28-2010, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Blake

my fiance has them. best $6000 she ever spent. (bolded because no man should ever buy them)

Pre or during relationship?

*waiting for someone to say pics*

fun ticket · 07-28-2010, 02:36 PM

If your wife, gf, or whatever wants to get them and has the money to buy them, I say get them. Then, enjoy them. Don't overthink it. If she's your girl and things are good, odds are she will stay your girl; boobies or not. If she leaves, I guarantee you it isn't just because she bought toys....there were/are other issues.

ghosthi32 · 07-28-2010, 02:41 PM

wtf. talking about boobs and no pics.

immiketoo · 07-28-2010, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by ghosthi32

wtf. talking about boobs and no pics.

I say let her. Don't pay. Although almost everyone I know who did get them is far too willing to show them off to anyone who'll look...

Memphis1 · 07-28-2010, 03:05 PM

Blake · 07-28-2010, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

Pre or during relationship?

*waiting for someone to say pics*

during and pics over my dead body

Lagger1 · 07-28-2010, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by bigslick82

This happened to a good friend of mine. He paid for his wife's implants and a couple months later she was caught with another guy. The affair went on for at least two months. She's sorry and wants to stay with him, but he's moved on. This was after a nine-year marriage.

Did they have kids?

OC Guy · 07-28-2010, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Blake

during and pics over my dead body

ghosthi32 · 07-28-2010, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Blake

during and pics over my dead body

that can be arranged...

Freakazoid · 07-28-2010, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by ghosthi32

that can be arranged...

depending on the boobs in question

Kroy · 07-28-2010, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by fun ticket

If your wife, gf, or whatever wants to get them and has the money to buy them, I say get them. Then, enjoy them. Don't overthink it. If she's your girl and things are good, odds are she will stay your girl; boobies or not. If she leaves, I guarantee you it isn't just because she bought toys....there were/are other issues.

+1

08rookie · 07-28-2010, 05:42 PM

well played gentlemen....well played! good discussion lol

boymonkey · 07-28-2010, 05:54 PM

She can always get them later in life when she becomes saggy.

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bigslick82 Second Lieutenant 64 Rep 209 Posts Drives: - Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: - iTrader: (0)	This happened to a good friend of mine. He paid for his wife's implants and a couple months later she was caught with another guy. The affair went on for at least two months. She's sorry and wants to stay with him, but he's moved on. This was after a nine-year marriage. If she's in a committed relationship with a future and she wants to get them, she's not happy with herself and/or the relationship.
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08rookie Private First Class 181 Rep 123 Posts Drives: bmw Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: phila, pa iTrader: (0)	@doug....def not paying lol...i was referring to the difference in comfort levels when comparing the actions of a girl you just started fucking to the actions of a girl you are considering proposing to. @mystic...im not denying anything...if you followed from the first page, my OP admitted to the number of reasons why i am not favoring the implants. health issues, financial issues and personal preference issues....i was explaining to OC335 in the post you quoted that's its too easy to blanket situations by saying one person is insecure when the circumstance isnt explained. so i tried to explain the circumstance and its as neutral as i could....if you knew me on a personal level maybe you would understand insecurity is not really the issue lol....
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T-MC-G Captain 72 Rep 671 Posts Drives: e90 325i Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Trier, Germany iTrader: (5)	tell her if she is going to get breast implants she might as well get some lipo at the same time... then let us know what her reaction is __________________ "tell me what you don't like about yourself..."
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Blake Banned 755 Rep 4,649 Posts Drives: Chevy Aveo Join Date: May 2008 Location: Parent's Basement iTrader: (7)	my fiance has them. best $6000 *she* ever spent. (bolded because no man should ever buy them)
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fun ticket Private First Class 143 Rep 129 Posts Drives: 2017 Ford Raptor Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Tampa, Florida iTrader: (0)	If your wife, gf, or whatever wants to get them and has the money to buy them, I say get them. Then, enjoy them. Don't overthink it. If she's your girl and things are good, odds are she will stay your girl; boobies or not. If she leaves, I guarantee you it isn't just because she bought toys....there were/are other issues.
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ghosthi32 Banned 39 Rep 2,504 Posts Drives: Water camel Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: strait of hormuz iTrader: (0)	wtf. talking about boobs and no pics.
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08rookie Private First Class 181 Rep 123 Posts Drives: bmw Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: phila, pa iTrader: (0)	well played gentlemen....well played! good discussion lol
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boymonkey Lieutenant 38 Rep 530 Posts Drives: slow Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Canada iTrader: (0)	She can always get them later in life when she becomes saggy.
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